Monday, November 26, 2012

True friendship.

Just now I read someone's story of how they lost their best friend on facebook and I felt the need to share some feelings by sharing the picture on my page with a sentiment of my own attached. Now I wish to elaborate on my sentiment, so I shall.

The person's story, to sum it up because I refuse to post the actual thing anywhere, is this. "You know that feeling when you've lost a friend? A true friend? It sucks. Knowing them for X years, growing closer to them. Even sharing things because you feel like a sibling to them... Then they leave you all because of a few bad choices. You date the wrong people, act like an ass, and then you turn around when you come around again and they're gone. It sucks and I hate it." 

Here is my sentiment. 


This entire thing is a falsehood. There is no such thing with a true friend. A true best friend will never forget you. They will always be there whenever you need them, thick or thin they have your back. Not to sound like an asshole since this is going on something like THIS, but I'm damn glad and proud I have people like that in my life.

God bless you.

To elaborate a little further, some background. I talk all the time with my friends and family. About a lot of stuff. A lot of the time things come up that have come up before and points are solidified time after time. My mother has made this point in the past and I know it is true to this very day. "If you needed your friends, the ones you know are true and the ones you talk to/hang out with the most you know they would be there for you." To which I would always respond "And I them." Now in my personal life I've proved this plenty before and so have they. A friend calls me up stopped in the middle of the road with a flat. What do I do? I hurry my ass out there as quick as I can and help him change the tire and make sure he doesn't get killed. Another instance, I had somewhere to go and my mom had my car because hers was in the shop. I pulled a game show and phoned a friend. They gladly gave me a ride and to pay them back I bought lunch. Which brings me to yet another case, and this more so than anything else. Money. Or to be specific, food money. If I have money and a friend doesn't, I'll spot them if I can. Same goes for them. Or if you're just that tiny little bit short, someone will have someone else's back. Now I'm horribly traditional, which makes me an oddity in this day and age I'm sure, but isn't that how things are supposed to work? When you forge a friendship you forge a bond with a person, you sign on contract in a way. The way I see it is that when you know someone and they need something you help out. One of the main saying I grew up with was "family and friends first." Because if you aren't there for a family member or a friend when they need you they just may not be there for long. I know that's a worst case scenario, but you know what I mean. At the very least it's just being decent, right? Common courtesy? I know this is a bit far fetched but shouldn't it be like The Lord of the Rings? A fellowship? An unbreakable bond? 

As I've stated before, I know I have people like that in my life and I'm damn happy and proud to know that I do. That I have what everyone should but sadly does not. A person is not blessed by what he has materially, but by the ties he has with others. You can buy and sell personal possessions, you can replace something if it gets lost or stolen, broken or damaged... But you cannot replace the life of another or the memories and feelings of those that you're closest to. Cherish those moments and those people. Another saying I've grown up with and hold dear to my heart is this, and then I'm done. "Never leave someone on a sour note. Always make amends as soon as you can. Because if you don't you may never get to do so in the future. And that feeling is infinitely worse than if you had never known them at all. 

God bless you all and thanks for reading, 
                                                                  ~Alex

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Opinions. (Or "Why do we have reviews at all?")

Hot topic for today class. "Why do we even bother having reviews?" The way I see it, they don't really do any good for anyone. Case and point, Abraham Lincoln Vampire Hunter and any other movie made. I watched this last night and I loved it. Easy 8/10 for me, I'd watch it again. I click on IMDB (Internet movie database) to go look up some background stuff on the movie and what do I see? 6/10. Granted that's out of thousands and thousands of reviews and ratings, but still. I just gave this movie an 8 so to me it's a faulty rating. Anyone would think that, right? I can say the same about movies I've hated, games, book... Anything.

I remember I had a guy come into Gamestop when I was working once and asked me to tell him some good games. Alright, I said, what types of games do you like? Oh just anything that looks pretty.... Alright... By what standard? What is your definition of "looks pretty?" I showed him things like Okami, a beautiful game modeled after Japanese watercolor artwork and calligraphy. I loved it when I played it, it's a very fun action adventure fantasy game. He just does this number. He picks the case up, looks at the back for two seconds and puts it down with the statement "I hate it." He didn't even let me tell him about the game. Didn't know what it was, just instantly hated it. I could have given him any and all the information he needed. Nope.

So the guy walks over to the infamous Sonic '06 and picks it up and a smile spreads across his face. "Now THIS. THIS looks great!" I told him it looks beautiful, sure, but it plays like a sack of sand being used as a hammer. It just doesn't work. At all. The graphics are the only thing that game had going for it. What's he do? He ignores me and buys it. What happens? He brings it back hours later on the same day and returns it to get something else. If he had listened to me and my review of anything, as it wasn't just with Okami, he might have been spared some money and an extra trip up here. But no. So why do we have reviews at all? It all boils down to personal opinion, right? And if you see a majorly hyped up game and then play it and hate it you feel pissed off and cheated, don't you? (I do.)

I have tons of review ideas and even some written up but I don't care to do anything with them because it wouldn't make a difference. Someone somewhere wont agree with me and they're going to complain about it, perhaps to the point of bad mouthing me and berating me for my "wrong opinion." then why bother in the first place? I know we have reviews just as a general consensus, a lumped together general feeling upon something. That's great, I understand that. I get it. But what good does it really do when 9/10 people, at least in my experience, don't listen to what anyone has to say. Or if they do listen they act like a stuck up spoiled little child and tell you you're wrong. And what's even worse, they don't even tell you why! They just say those little words and leave it at that. If you're going to tell someone they're wrong you should at least have the knowledge and backbone enough to explain why. Present a credible argument or discussable reason.

Maybe if people thought a little bit more about things the world would be a better, easy going place to live in. But the way it is now you can't even have an opinion, or share the one you have out of fear of being made fun of or talked down to. To close it off I shall share my opinion on one horrible thing I love and one loved thing I hate.

The Kinect. Everyone berates it for not doing what it should and not working the way it's supposed to. Mine works perfectly fine when I use it, and I got mine used! Nothing's ever going to be perfect, and it's still a new piece of technology. For how new it is and if you set it up correctly and use it as instructed, it works very very well. It may be hit and miss at times, but its general performance is well above what people say.

Thinking back on it I can't really think of anything I HATE that people love, so I'll use this instead....

Castlevania 1-whatever number the arcade style went up to. I like the game. Do I agree with people who say that the arcade styled ones are vastly superior to the rpg, metroid-esque ones? Hell no. They're fun and I like them but they're nowhere NEAR the top of the list of "best games" in my book. I could get into a discussion of this just by itself but I'll keep it short. If someone asks me to back my opinions up I shall do so then. "The jumping is shoddy, you can hardly get from point a to point b without playing it like a strategy game. If you die, you die. That's it. Hours of hard work gone, all for nothing. "Aww, but I was all the way to Dracula, now I have to start all over?" YEP SCREW YOU KID. Now I know some of the newer games fix these problems and that's why I still like them, but the originals are terrible. The one that started to fix everything was Super Castlevania IV. From then on I like the arcade style games. But 1-before IV are terrible and feel like they were all rushed games that went unfinished.
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Opinions are just that. If you do not value my opinion and feel the need to act out like I have stated others have then be kind to everyone and refrain from posting something you'll regret later. Thumper rule.

If you would like me to explain something further or have a civil talk about anything you see here, let me know. I will be more than happy to defend or elaborate my standings on anything.

Thank you and have a blessed day,
                                                        ~Coby

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